Deacon Jeff

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Deacon JeffDeacon Jeff Drzycimski and his wife Bess have been happily married for over 20 years and are the proud parents of nine children, all of whom are homeschooled.

He was born and raised a Catholic, but strayed from the Church as a young adult.  After a “born-again” encounter with Jesus, he started searching for the one true church that Jesus Himself had founded in the Bible.  He started with the writings of the early Christians.  It didn’t take long before he discovered that the church he had left behind, the Roman Catholic Church, the same church in which he was Baptized, received First Eucharist and Confirmed, was that very church.

Deacon Jeff returned to the Faith with a newfound love of Christ and His Church, and an enthusiasm for the Truth. He developed a great passion for defense of the Faith issues and apologetics. After attending a Cursillo three-day weekend, he recommitted himself – and his fourth day – to finding God’s will for his life.  This eventually led to his ordination as a Permanent Deacon for the Diocese of Memphis in Tennessee in April of 2008. You can read his homilies at thedailydeacon.com.

Professionally, he has been a video producer for more than 20 years, specializing in marketing and training presentations for companies like FedEx, International Paper and ServiceMaster.

Deacon Jeff, Bess and their children are members of Holy Rosary Catholic Church in Memphis, Tennessee.


TomTom Dorian is co-host of The Catholic Café and is a close personal friend of Deacon Jeff.  The two forged a friendship after attending the Cursillo three-day weekend.  Part of the Cursillo experience is to move into your “fourth day” with a newly charged spiritual passion.  This is lived out faithfully partially due to the accountability and faith-sharing that comes from Cursillo group reunions.  Tom, Deacon Jeff and several others have been grouping for about 12 years.

Tom jumped at the chance to become co-host of the show because he knew it would be yet another opportunity to learn and grow in his faith.

Tom owns an insurance business and is very active in his local parish, St. Louis Church in Memphis, Tennessee.  He serves on a variety of boards associated with the Church in Memphis, like Blue Streak Scholarship Fund (raising scholarship money for the children of the Jubilee Schools) and the West Tennessee Catholic Schools Advisory Board.

Tom is married to his wife, Cindy, and has 5 children.


Bess and JeffBess Drzycimski was born the eighth of fifteen children.  The daughter of an Air Force pilot, her family traveled from base to base throughout the country.

While in college in Memphis, Tennessee, she met and married the man who would become (only by the grace of God) Deacon Jeff Drzycimski.

Bess has always possessed a strong, unwavering Catholic faith.  In fact, early in their marriage, Bess was the spiritual “rock” in their relationship and waited patiently (and prayerfully) as her husband slowly discovered the obvious – that God had incredible plans for the Drzycimski family.

She supported him fully during his discernment of God’s call to Holy Orders, and attended every class at his side during his formation as a Permanent Deacon for the Diocese of Memphis in Tennessee.

When not delivering kids to various sporting and scouting events, or taking them to daily Mass, or on educational outings to the museum or the zoo, Bess spends much of her day teaching in the home classroom, playing with babies and keeping a wonderful, nurturing, Christ-centered home.

The family happily resides in Memphis, Tennessee.


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